3 October 2009- Why must things turn out this way?

I am feeling very down- we had a quarrel today.

A small matter just blew into a huge spat involving maid, money, exhaustion, family and most importantly, our characters. The 2 people shouting at each other seemed to have changed from the one each was attracted to and married in the first place. People change over time; circumstances and experiences caused people to change. However, what do you do when the rate of change is not the same for both? Can we still stand by and hold each others' hands to walk down the rest of the path together?